Marriage is a bond of love. This can not be expressed in words because it comes out from the inner of heart. I have completed 35 years of my marriage . Now I am 55. This period of marriage gave me many dimensions to my life . we always complain about scarcity of things in our life .but if you have a good life partner who support you every time for making you feel happy and full of enthusiasm, you will take your life purposely. In India , marriage is a bond of love for husband and wife . They take oath to spend the whole life with each other . The reason is that they have been taught since childhood about the importance of family and marriage. In good or bad conditions, they remain together they never think of separation. Dispute and quarrel are common among couples . It tells us the differences of opinion between husband and wife. It doesn't mean that we should leave our life partner in the journey of our life . We cannot spend a life of enjoyment without life partner. we dislike some of habits of our life partner . We never see our own habits which are not liked by our life partner. There should be compromise in every issue of life. Seperation or divorce are happening day by day because of lack of tolerance among couples. Cruelity and torturing must be avoided to remain happy in a married life. materialism and selfishness have increased to be separated from the life partner because of divorce. Every male and female wants to get more power of money to control his/her partner . This rules make their life hell and quarrels start between them. There must be love and cooperation affection for a better married life. Their quarrels create panic among other family members who live with them and want to get compromise between them at any cost. If the couple have any child, they both never take care of your child because of only their ego. Dear readers I request you to comments on my blogs for supporting me in this matter. Please follow my blogs.
Millions of millions years have passed and human civilization comes into existence. Existence of God is eternal truth
Millions of millions years have passed and human civilization comes into existence. Existence of God is eternal truth
Health,Wealth,Beauty are gifts of God
God is full of Mercy and has given power of thinking and reasoning. Health, wealth, power, prosperity, happiness are God ' blessings to human beings. Most of people live a very simple and others live a life of luxury and comfort . What they get without much hard working because of only God's blessings. We see that most of people do not get proper food both time. some of them get enough food and good living standard . In Hindu mythology all we get due to our karma ( our sins and curses of previous life). We should always be thankful for God's Mercy because only God can give us all these things. In our day to day work we never pray and thank God for what we get. God has given unlimited blessings for living a very simple and generous life.
God created death for beginning of life.
Death means beginning of life. God is eternal so death is also eternal. The spans of life are different. Death is the most powerful of them. Fear from death means fear from God . We must not worry about our future. God has given us life and death for doing deeds of world which are essential for spending life on earth . There are many sense of life full of worries ,hurries ,love ,affection and many different feelings . But death brings new feature of life. We must thank god for giving such a beautiful life which ends with death.we should thankful god for every work. According to Indian literature and religious books we should be thankful to God for giving us a life which is full of every kind of feeling in the world. We get what we did in our past. We get good life if we did good deeds in the past and will leave a happy life if we are doing best in the present time. Everything ends in this world. God has created everything for beautify this world. We never find anything waste in this universe.
Best creation of God is education,health
Health and Education are integrated for humans' life growth. Education has given many opportunities of development to the humanity. Without education ,no progress can be done in the world. education means knowledge. knowledge means wealth. wealth means comfortability . Comfortability increases satisfaction and contentment into life . Education increases the power of thinking and reasoning. humans' being find best way of life through education . Life was very simple and unnatural before invention of education.
Love and Affection
Being Human we have many qualities like love and affection. we have Bond with our members of family, society due to only love and affection. Sometime love cannot be expressed in words. Mother's love is the most secred love in every respect. father's love is different from mother's love in comparison of all love. I find Mothers love is greater than father's love because mother has special attachment with the child. Each and every second of life of women is linked with her child. women can sacrifice everything for her child. Women feel of extreme pain at the time of birth of a child which is undescribable and unexplainable. So love and affection between child and mother is unique ,special and everlasting.
Immoral relations is against humanity
Relations make society powerful instrument for the growth of a person. the person who live in society need help of family members, society members and different groups. without Support no human being can survive .the reason is clear the formation of society is done for the sake of safety and protection of human beings nature physical protection and other means. love and affection are integral part of society or family. without family a person can leave a life of loneliness. We know nothing about the cultural values of family whenever we are not in contact of family members. we find great respect and care protection from other members of the family .without care and protection the person will suffer mentally and physical challenges. In the western countries relations among family members are breaking day by day. only materialism and consumerism are found for any relation. Immoral relations lead to destruction .there is a famous Indian proverb regarding this matter that Property land and women are the cause of killing of innocent people. the root cause of everyone merciless killing is women. Immoral relations create conditions for killing and torturing a special section of the society like women.
Indian culture and history
India is a very ancient country .There are many religions in India. This is unique country in this sense. Yoga and Meditation are integral part of Indian culture . Indian civilization is the most ancient civilization in the world. In India the sun ,the moon ,the air, the earth, the trees all are respected and worshipped. Yoga and meditation give a lot of peace of mind and high level of satisfaction in life . Materialism and Consumerism are increasing day by day but contentment and satisfaction are going down. The most important reason of immortality is materialism . Every Civilization has progressed and achieved a lot but Indian civilization and religion have given many valuable preachings and teachings to the world for welfare of human beings. I have seen the downfalls of life in every way. But Indian culture is far better than other cultures of other countries. There are not much clashes among people over matter of religion and other social matters. Different religions are found in India and people of all religions live with their own way of life free of any pressure. In many other countries there are precious among the people of different religions and merciless killing of people has been very common. Hinduism is the best sect in this way because this has given us the tolerance power of living with any kind of people without any violence and hatred.
God' purest creation is childhood
God has created many comfortable beautiful things which attract us. CHILDHOOD is one of them.I find childhood is free of worries and purest form of human beings. In childhood the child does not know anything about life and he leaves a carefree life without any worries. He knows nothing about jealous happiness and worries. He sleeps for hours he wakes for hours and he enjoys his life at the fullest moment every minute or second. When a person becomes adult he comes into the world of worries and spends sleepless hours to think about future and find nothing in return. Childhood brings you in the world of enjoyment and entertainment. Being mature we always think about many things which makes full of sad and keeps us away from the happiness. We should be thankful to God that childhood was the time when we had no worries and any kind of trouble in our life. If we want to enjoy the life he should be the hours of childhood in our adult time and live a happy and pleasurable life.
God looks after universe.
God is full of Mercy and has given power of thinking and reasoning. What is happening around the world is due to only God's creation. God has created the our actions with our thinking. Can we live without thinking. Thinking is the creation of God . There is no limit of words, there is no limit of action there is no limit of universe .God is unique ,Supreme, powerful and present everywhere. something happens wrong we say that God has done if something happens good we say that God has done it .We give credit to everything to God. The reason who believes in God give the credits to God. Nothing else those people who are not following any religion .Are without parents ,no they are born by parents .No one exists without parents .We find limit in everything but universe is limitless and beyond our expectations. With the help of science anybody wants to prove that life comes into existence with the help of monkeys and other animals but according to my views life comes into existence with the help of and love of God
God's action is miracle
There is a limit of human capability ,his physical power, his mental power, his spritual power ,he cannot go beyond the limit . Why do we think about God ? According to me only his lust ,his willing, his expectations, reasons of his limitations. Something happens strange which is unexpected and unthinkable is God's action. the reason human limitations are under control of Super power and Supreme Power of God can do miracle because human capability is limited. Human beings are very weak and do not get protection from anywhere except God. God gives us staying to live near water and many natural things are available due to existence of god. VC date a person gets water to live and grains for food. how do food items come into existence. We get everything because of God if God wants give us pleasure and happiness we cannot spend life one second in sorrows.
Religion makes us greedy and selfish
God is full of Mercy and has given power of thinking and reasoning. according to me, religion makes us greedy and selfish . The reason we always consider our religion is better than other. In my view no religion has given this statement that this religion is better than others .But only man has considers that his religion is best than other. It cannot happen. The reason is very clear a religion has been created for satisfying humans greed. In my view life can be spent without religion. The people who follow any religion of their own choice ,feel attachment with their custom rituals and festival and we find that the God has made us better than others. I am talking about India there are so many religions and sects. The whole country has been divided into many parts on behalf of languages, religions.The people think about only themselves and think that their religion has given them good teachings. We should help others for making everyone's life better .This is the only message of religion. We should follow humanity in every way rather than religions.
Materialism-cause of worries
Materialism is cause of worries. I tried to explain this blog' title. There are only two categories in the world the poor and the rich. The rich have all kinds of resources to satisfy their needs and the poor face problems of scarcity of every materialistic things in the world. Think about the time when the human beings were living in the forest. All were in same condition they feel winter,summer and every season equally .If they feel hungry they get fruits and other eatable things from the forest. But now the man has got so called Civilization .Due to civilization man puts on cloth. The clothes have been mandatory. But clothes are not necessary for tribal people who are living in forest. Food is basic need for every human beings. According to me only materialistic things are cause of worries. Maithili song is the reason to live a life with Comforts but still ISM gives us peacefulness health happiness which keeps us refreshes for a long time.
Hatred is Inhumanity
God is full of Mercy and has given power of thinking and reasoning. There is a big question in my mind that what is mean of hatred . This is a state of mind when we think ill of others, there is a special feelings of removing any person from before us. Can we get rid of hatred? Being humans, we cannot get rid of hatred .The reason is simple . We cannot control our feeling for those who are not good for us. As well as we cannot control others' feelings also in anyway. We feel hungry, we search food . We feel cold we find blanket or any woolen clothes. Whenever we think something good we get different feelings like happiness in our mind. I have done this practice with me whenever I feel hatred for anyone, I remove the person's picture from my mind and feel calm and peace. In this way we can change hatred into love and affection .
Beauty undescribable
God is full of Mercy and has given power of thinking and reasoning. There is a big question about beauty. What is beauty ? I have seen many beautiful things but beauty remains beauty.We see any person and say immediately he is handsome or she is very beautiful. what is the concept of beauty. I see beauty in ugly things and I have seen ugliness in beautiful things. It is only the concept of Mind. Those couple who have got bond of marriage years ago . Sometime find beauty in each other. Some couples become fed up with each other because they never see beauty of a person. according to me if you have beauty of a person in your mind then you can keep your relation for a long time with that person otherwise many divorce cases are found only in western countries more then Eastern countries. The reason is that they see the beauty of body not the beauty of mind, every person has feelings and concept of beauty . The person who has a small I have been ugly for many people due to only some reasons. I think anyone is a man or woman first ,then concept of beauty comes in our brain. we should not see any one' colour, C, cast and beauty. Every beautiful thing is made by ugly things. No one is perfect and complete person in this world. Keep your mind in state of beautiful condition, then you can live a life of contentment and satisfaction.
Life is a series of happiness & sorrow
We talk about sensible matter for living a satisfied and peaceful life. We want to live a clean and meaningful life. We get birth and spend some years of life in childhood. Till this amazing and beautiful period we never know sorrows. When our life enter in the youth . We feel love and other feelings vigorously and try to get it in anyway. In such period sorrows also comes and bothers a lot. Education and career create tension and restlessness in innermost. Materialistic things attract and put in trouble for fulfilling wishes of life. According to me , only expectations are root cause of sorrows and restlessness in life. If we want to get peace of mind for living a satisfied Life, we must try to meet our basic needs only.
Laughter is good medicine for health
Being Human only laughing is available to human beings. Thousands of thousands species are found on earth . But laughter is such precious quality which is found only in human beings. Whenever we are happy we feel pleasure and laugh heartedly. I always advise my friends , nears and dears that we should laugh for no reason. Sometime there should be no reason for laughing because happiness cannot be put into category of prestige, materialism . Mostly People think that if they have money they be happy, they have good wealth they are happy. There is a good house for living they are happy. everything they have got, laughter can make you more happier than any other thing in the world. But happiness cannot be put into materialism. We should always try to laugh to remove depression and disappointment from life. This is very common saying for all that laughter is the best medicine in the world which removes all disease from the body and keeps you fresh and energetic for leaving a very very peaceful and carefree life.
India- Abode of God
India is an ancient country.
This country is full of spirituality. Those people who come India get peace. Sometime we are fed up with our life and we want peace .where is peace? how can we find peace. There are many saints and thinkers know that India is rich in culture. Indians believe in god'existence .Indian pray for the earth , the sun, the moon and pray to God . With deep thinking, meditation, yoga and many things you discover in the world is given by Indian people .I am not telling that I am Indian for I am praising my India. Did you ever hear about god ? first place in India Lord Rama ,Lord Krishna, Lord Vishnu and many goddess have been part of Indian culture and customs. Materialism is attracting people . All people wants more things and more comforts. But when our heart is full of such material , we run for peace and contentment. We can find peace in India . India is the place where people get peace you have heard that great saints are found only in India. Millions of millions people visit religious places in India and many functions and festivals are celebrated for thanks giving.
TIME IS ENDLESS
We become old and die . How it happens. It is very common question among us. Time is the series of happenings which we see in our daily life. We see people dying and getting birth. Sometimes time gives us opportunity for living a life with enjoyment . We say that our life is good and his life is full of struggle. We say that life is best. Life is nothing only time is important . We cannot ignore time. We cannot overlap time. We cannot get into time which has gone past . Every second every minute every hour we spend time which can be counted into years, the ages and centuries. We become the part of time and die. We must understand the powerful act of time. Time is everything whatever we do is time. We are growing in our business it is time. We are destroying our time it is time. we are watching movie by spending time. We must respect our time and do joyful acts for using time for a purposeful life.
Prayer is essential
we are human beings .we have got this existence because of only God . our presence on earth is act of God. God has given us his mercies. we are under his control. if we are under control of God ,why should we not pray to God for giving us everything for making our life simple and comfortable .the life was full of tiredness full of worries full of struggle but today life has been very comfortable to a person who is working hard to make his life comfortable. God has given us healthy and energetic. We must be thankful to God for his mercy and grace.
Existence of God
God is full of Mercy and has given power of thinking and reasoning. Do you ever think that life has been started by God ? How can we say that life has been started by God. It is very simple that everything is coming into existence due to only parents. Life is part of time I consider that time is important . Do you know how Earth is formed, how Sun is formed,p how life comes into existence . It is the question of our faith, our thinking ,our reasoning, our way of living . Universe spend millions of millions years to bring life into existence of today . We have come into form due to only God. Whenever we see anything we find this has been created by someone . We also think God has created and God has given us. We are really thankful to our God for giving us such a nice life. Sometime we feel botheration due to only our thinking. There is no doubt that existence of god is eternal and we should never go against this statement. Whatever people think about this matter but I firmly believe that God helps us in every condition. It is matter of grave concerned that non believers criticize the existence of God.